Have you
been in an unconditional love? Basically it refers to being in love with
someone without any expectations from the other side. Love with expectations
mostly result in pain when the other doesn’t come up to your ‘expectations’. It
can’t even be called as love, as love and desire do not go along.
Simply
loving for what he/she means for you in your life is one of the most adorable phases
one could ever go through in life. In this state you are two humans, but one
soul. Words are not required to express yourself (most of the times). You think
as one, act as one, live as one. You might be physically separated, but united
eternally.
Can you be
in unconditional love with your life partner only? I personally feel it is not
so. You are born in the world as nobody. Whatever you are today is by the
courtesy and blessings (knowingly or unknowingly) of numerous personalities.
The most worthy ones in this category are our parents. Unless as in a few exceptional
cases, we are naturally bound in Unconditional Love with them. I personally am truly blessed with my
parents. They are the best that could ever happen to me. They inspire me to go
ahead in life. I learnt the amazing feel of being in Unconditional love from
them. Next in line come all of my teachers, who have been kind enough to mold
a personality in me (if at all it exists). My feelings for them can be better
coined as that of an Unconditional Respect and Gratitude.
Friends are
the greatest assets one can have in life. Realizing their evident importance in
our life is what most of us fail to do. They are truly too precious to be lost
in our journey through life. It definitely takes some effort to be
unconditional in friendship; but it undoubtedly is a divine state to be in. Being unconditional in friendship is
comparatively easier. The relatively comparable wavelength amongst friends is
what makes the effort required to be minimal. I personally am grandly blessed
with many a friends across territories, with whom I have always tried to be
Unconditional in friendship. Their value for me can’t be described in words. Losing
one such great friend to God’s plan has made me realize the prophesy of being
unconditional in friendship (somewhat).
The love of one’s
life, if true would undoubtedly be unconditional. Blessed are those who have
found theirs and are in the divine state. It is definitely not the end aim of
life but the way of life. Life becomes meaningful and completes in his/her
presence. And what compels me to think so? Well, only my faith in Almighty,
that he can bless anyone who dearly wishes for it and be open to receive when
it occurs. In my personal scenario, when I am yet to find the true love of my
life and see only glimpses/shadows of her around, my faith in Him only grows
stronger; He has kept her from me, only for me. The glimpses reveal to me that
reality would be beyond whatever I could ever wish for. When even the shadows feel so soothing, I
wonder and eagerly await for the bliss He has in store when I discover her. It
has to be one of His finest blessings that He has been constantly showering
upon me.
I am destined to find you.. MY LOVE…
