UNCONDITIONAL LOVE

  Have you been in an unconditional love? Basically it refers to being in love with someone without any expectations from the other side. Love with expectations mostly result in pain when the other doesn’t come up to your ‘expectations’. It can’t even be called as love, as love and desire do not go along.

  Simply loving for what he/she means for you in your life is one of the most adorable phases one could ever go through in life. In this state you are two humans, but one soul. Words are not required to express yourself (most of the times). You think as one, act as one, live as one. You might be physically separated, but united eternally. 

  Can you be in unconditional love with your life partner only? I personally feel it is not so. You are born in the world as nobody. Whatever you are today is by the courtesy and blessings (knowingly or unknowingly) of numerous personalities. The most worthy ones in this category are our parents. Unless as in a few exceptional cases, we are naturally bound in Unconditional Love with them.  I personally am truly blessed with my parents. They are the best that could ever happen to me. They inspire me to go ahead in life. I learnt the amazing feel of being in Unconditional love from them. Next in line come all of my teachers, who have been kind enough to mold a personality in me (if at all it exists). My feelings for them can be better coined as that of an Unconditional Respect and Gratitude.

  Friends are the greatest assets one can have in life. Realizing their evident importance in our life is what most of us fail to do. They are truly too precious to be lost in our journey through life. It definitely takes some effort to be unconditional in friendship; but it undoubtedly is a divine state to be in.  Being unconditional in friendship is comparatively easier. The relatively comparable wavelength amongst friends is what makes the effort required to be minimal. I personally am grandly blessed with many a friends across territories, with whom I have always tried to be Unconditional in friendship. Their value for me can’t be described in words. Losing one such great friend to God’s plan has made me realize the prophesy of being unconditional in friendship (somewhat). 

  The love of one’s life, if true would undoubtedly be unconditional. Blessed are those who have found theirs and are in the divine state. It is definitely not the end aim of life but the way of life. Life becomes meaningful and completes in his/her presence. And what compels me to think so? Well, only my faith in Almighty, that he can bless anyone who dearly wishes for it and be open to receive when it occurs. In my personal scenario, when I am yet to find the true love of my life and see only glimpses/shadows of her around, my faith in Him only grows stronger; He has kept her from me, only for me. The glimpses reveal to me that reality would be beyond whatever I could ever wish for.  When even the shadows feel so soothing, I wonder and eagerly await for the bliss He has in store when I discover her. It has to be one of His finest blessings that He has been constantly showering upon me.

 I am destined to find you.. MY LOVE…